Reactions,
Notes, And Follow Ups To Previous Articles
By
Mrs. Rochel Gershowitz
At
that moment, I opened my eyes
Fraidy
ben Shimon, who was interviewed in issue #261 about growing up in
Mexico, her move to Eretz Yisroel and subsequent transition to
Chabad, volunteered another fascinating detail recently provided
by her father when he read the article about his daughter.
“When
I was a two-week old baby,” Fraidy said, “my mother visited a
pediatrician in Mexico, who diagnosed me with a severe throat
inflammation. The doctor gave me a penicillin injection and I lost
consciousness. The doctor was unable to rouse me and he personally
took me to the nearest hospital along with my mother.
“Once
at the hospital, my mother called my father in tears, telling him
of my critical state. My father was shaken up. He immediately
called the Rebbe’s secretariat and received the Rebbe’s bracha
for a refua shleima. At that moment, I opened my eyes.”
expecting
a child
A
shlucha somewhere outside of Eretz Yisroel
read the article printed in issue #256, about a woman who had
twins after her daughter, Libby, davened for them as she bentched
licht Friday night. She called the woman and asked that Libby daven
that she have a child, too. The girl added the woman’s name
to the list she keeps in a special notebook. Barely two months had
passed when the shlucha (who would like to remain
anonymous) felt she had to call and let Libby know that her tefillos
had been effective, as she is expecting a child.
“Don’t
you want to be a June bride?”
The
story in issue #268, about the car that went up in flames, told
about the chassan who was badly burned in the accident. In
a conversation with his wife, she related a most interesting yechidus
she had had with the Rebbe. This is her story:
My
chassan and I had a yechidus. I was still a student
at the time, which is why my family decided to push off the
wedding for a few months, when I would finish school. The date we
had chosen was 5 Elul.
I
apprehensively asked my chassan what to speak about at the yechidus,
because I hadn’t had much experience with yechiduyos. He
calmed me, saying that the Rebbe would read the Pa’N and
bless us and that would be all. I believed him.
We
entered the Rebbe’s room and the first thing that happened was
the Rebbe looked at the note with the wedding date and turned to
me with a broad smile and said, “You want to wait until 5 Elul?
Why not make it earlier?”
I
was momentarily confused, but I found the words to explain that I
first had to finish my year at school. “So finish the year as a
new kalla,” said the Rebbe smiling. “Don’t you want
to be a June bride?”
“No,”
I answered, and then I noticed my chassan looking at me in
amazement as though he wanted to tell me something. I didn’t
know what he meant.
“I
want to finish school (where I was staying in a dormitory far from
home) and then go back home. I’d like to be with my family in
order to be able to prepare for the wedding.”
The
Rebbe didn’t give up. “But you can also get ready
quickly...”
“No,”
I heard myself insist, and again I noticed my chassan
looking as though he was about to faint. “My mother will be
upset if it is all rushed and not organized as she would like.”
When
the Rebbe saw that I was unwilling to change my mind, he gave us a
bracha for 5 Elul. It was only after we left the yechidus
that my chassan said he was totally shocked about how I had
dared to argue with the Rebbe. He informed me that one does not
have such dialogues with the Rebbe. But it was too late...
When
the car accident happened in Tammuz, when my chassan was
traveling with a group of friends to a wedding, I cried bitterly,
remembering how the Rebbe tried to convince me to get married
earlier. I was disturbed by the thought: If we had been married
already, this wouldn’t have happened. Why didn’t I listen to
the Rebbe?
The
Rebbe knows everything
A
shlucha in the C.I.S. read an article about shlichus
in the Hebrew section of Beis Moshiach. She noted
how true it was that the Rebbe ensures that a shaliach
should not stumble, and related the following story:
My
husband was mekarev a boy to Yiddishkeit, and he
became a member of our household. Little by little, he began
learning Chassidus and became mekushar to the Rebbe. When
he was ready for a shidduch, we looked for a special girl
for him. We finally found the right girl, someone eidel, mekushar
to the Rebbe, and someone my husband and I both knew, and we
suggested the idea to the boy.
They
met, and after a number of dates they decided to marry. We were
thrilled, for this was the first shidduch we managed to
make. My husband explained to the happy couple that the proper
thing to do was to ask for the Rebbe’s bracha before
publicizing the good news. They happily agreed and put a note into
the Igros Kodesh.
My
husband opened the volume with a big smile and began reading out
loud: “A kosher bas Yisroel should be found…” and he
stopped smiling. I was also stunned. I looked over at the chassan
who looked discomfited. I turned to the kalla. Her face was
ashen and she trembled. Suddenly she got up from her chair, turned
towards the boy and said, “The Rebbe knows everything. I can’t
hide anything from him. A week ago, my mother told me the truth
– we are not Jewish. She forged her documents so that we could
leave for Eretz Yisroel. I didn’t get up the courage to tell you
the truth, but the Rebbe knows it all.”
Naturally,
the couple did not marry, but my husband and I saw again that the
Rebbe watches over the Yidden.